Looks like my surgeon was right! My uterus had focal adenomyosis which for the non endo people its endometriosis inside my uterus. it's actually hard to find during pathology but mine was like hey how are you im right here waving. So basically my chances of having babies would've been nothing but heartbreaking with miscarriages and harmful to myself. It was a blessing in disguise. I also couldn't bear to have a daughter with this. I'm starting to
mentally switch my mindset in all of this. You tend to do that after 5 surgeries. 😬 Every time I would walk into the room before surgery i never really got nervous it was odd, I wasn't scared, I just did what I had to do. I guess that makes me strong even though I don't feel it.
The one thing that really plays in my mind was the fact that I've been on this journey alone. Meaning no significant other, I've had my mom and family there yes, but I've taken care of myself. In all honesty what guy would want to date a sick girl? The last date I went on the guy basically called me fat and said we weren't compatible. Maybe that's why I've thrown in the towel. It's sad because I think I'm a funny person, I'm actually pretty nice minus the hormonal shit I'm going through. I was so worried the other day that no one would want someone that couldn't have her own children. But a wise woman said if I meet that guy that is selfish like that then he isn't worth it. Which completely makes sense. I have a lot of good qualities. Yes I'm not super skinny as I used to be I'm fat but whatever it is what it is, I'm nervous without makeup on, I like to spend time at home with my fur babies, but what really truly matters is I am me. If that takes 10 years to find someone to be devoted to me then so be it. I won't settle for less than I deserve..
And onto the less emotional stuff..
I think my energy is slowly coming back, as I'm lying here at 9 pm 😂 Back pain is what's my new aggravation. Go figure it's not the hot flashes, weight gain, hormones, or my missing organs. I had lower back pain from the adenomyosis prior to surgery but this is a whole new level. It's like it's stiff and achy all the time. The doctor said its from something that is inflamed from surgery and will heal. He used fancy anatomy terms but my brain is fried. The funny thing is I haven't really rested much, I'm up early organizing stuff and throwing stuff away it's actually totally not me it's scary. I'm less of a hoarder now. Maybe I will work on my sleeping and resting this week. I only have another two weeks left before I go back to work. 👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻
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